Sometimes in every relationship there is a need to break away from reality and spend a few days away from home. Even if just for a weekend! That's when we start planning a vacation for two, so we can spend quality time with our loved one, in harmony with our needs.
However, it turns out that this is often quite a challenge! So how do you plan a trip with your partner to make it successful? We will give you some tips!
The most important, overriding rule - the trip together should be a pleasure for you. No one wants to commit to a weekend with their other half if they know it will be full of stress, tension, and frustration. Even the most romantic circumstances won't fix a bad mood if we start off on the wrong foot. Some may say - yes, easier said than done! Others - well, that's obvious! But in practice, it varies, as experience shows.
Let's be clear - we can't control everything. Sure, unexpected events may happen, such as a flat tire on the highway or a sudden toothache, which can negatively affect our romantic vacation. But many things are within our control, and those are the ones we should focus on. Remember, if we ensure basic comfort for our rest, it will be easier to cope with negative emotions caused by unfortunate incidents.
This may be a trivial matter, but a successful vacation for couples or even a romantic weekend out of town happens when there is no frustration caused by the chosen date or the budget we want to allocate. It is definitely worth agreeing on a date suitable for both people and the length of the stay. Often, one partner cannot take an additional day off or has already planned a visit to an aunt or a dog grooming appointment that weekend. And although the excitement of the trip may be there, it often comes alongside the fear of changing plans, rescheduling, explanations, and organizational matters to handle.
Interestingly, a surprise trip works best when it is spontaneous and organized at the last minute! Imagine this situation - we know that neither we nor our partner have plans for the upcoming Saturday and Sunday. In that case, a spontaneous surprise decision made on Thursday or even Friday has a good chance of success. If we then plan a romantic weekend just for two away from the city, close to nature, with an exquisite dinner and a relaxing bath, which we can almost dream about - what could go wrong? The risk of hitting the wrong date or bitterness from postponing errands is low.
When talking about the date, it is also worth considering the length of the stay. A vacation for two can last 2 or 3 weeks, or it can last 2 days. It all depends on needs, the possibility of taking leave, arranging childcare, household duties, and the budget, but more on that later. Moreover, remember that we all like to travel differently. Some cannot imagine driving for several hours and choose the train instead. Others, after a few days away from home, only dream of returning to their own four walls.
An important issue that greatly influences the planned rest. It is wise to approach finances with caution and not get carried away by emotions. A good method is to set two types of amounts we want to allocate - not necessarily just for the trip, but this can apply to other areas of life as well. We speak about setting two amounts - the optimum amount and the maximum amount. The optimum amount is the sum of money we want to allocate to a given goal that is comfortable for us. Comfortable enough that we have no “but” about it, it involves no sacrifices, and spending it doesn't cause discomfort. The maximum amount is the highest sum we would be willing to spend on the goal. It sets an upper limit we will stick to and serves as a benchmark. This approach gives us many clues about our possibilities and helps clear doubts when they arise.
When the “organizational matters” regarding date and costs are established, the most important remains - what to do during a vacation for two? Well - sky is the limit!
Approaches vary. Some opt for a romantic weekend at a spa for two with relaxing massages and an exquisite dinner followed by a walk on the beach at sunset. Others love active rest in the mountains, skiing, and mountain climbing. Some prefer to choose proven activities and attractions they know they will enjoy. Others crave novelty and find the very prospect of experiencing new things exciting. It all depends on individual preferences.
So how to choose the right vacation for us and our partner? The best way is to find out during a conversation. Agree on what we like. How to determine that when we want to surprise someone? It is worth basing on observations and not forgetting about daily routines. If the partner exercises regularly or rides a bike, it is worth choosing a hotel with a well-equipped fitness room or bike rental. If our partner is more of a homebody, they will likely appreciate a peaceful place close to nature with interesting relaxation options, e.g. a Spa & Wellness area.
It is worth remembering that a vacation for two, no matter how long it lasts, is a good way to care for our relationship and add romantic touches. It might be a bouquet of flowers in the room, a picnic on the beach, a walk through old town streets at night, or a relaxing chocolate massage. Did you know that many hotels offer treatments for couples? Then we can enjoy spa for two and not only indulge in a relaxing massage or bath but do it with our loved one. Often such attractions take place in private spa zones, ensuring the right atmosphere full of closeness and love, where we can fully relax with our partner. It's worth experiencing this at least once in a lifetime!
However, remember that an unforgettable weekend for two or a longer vacation does not have to consist of grand gestures and huge emotions. Every small element counts, which together create a larger whole defining a successful trip for lovers.
